After the threesome, what next?

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May 08, 2018

When it comes to sexual fantasies, threesomes are probably the most popular desire that men have.

To a committed couple, a threesome can be a fun way to add some variety to their sex life. There have been situations where this experience has caused more harm than good, so much so that relationships have ended after a threesome.

So for that man who wants to introduce another woman to his spouse as a present for his birthday, here are some things you could consider before doing it.

How well do you please your partner on your own?

Typically, men assume that all women want sexually is their penis, so the thought of having another woman being intimate with her is not threatening at all. This is a mistake. Women don't have the penis to depend on, so she is much more attentive and creative in how she pleases her partner. Basically, a woman knows the female body and the experience can demonstrate how lacking his usual performance really is.

What's the relationship with the third person?

Choosing the third party in a threesome is critical. There are some things that you must discuss as a couple before deciding who to invite to this experience. It's not typically recommended that the third person be someone from work or even a really good friend. Adding sex to those relationships can affect the overall dynamic and change the way you relate after the threesome.

What are the rules?

This is a step that too many couples skip and that can be the biggest reason that there's a problem after. Before the act, the couple needs to decide what boundaries will be set and communicate those rules to the third party before anyone gets naked.

Returning to life after the event

A threesome is not something that can practically be a part of everyday life for a couple. So they need to decide how they will enjoy each other after the experience.

Personally, I am a fan of couples openly exploring the confines of their relationship sexually, but it must be done in an open, honest way. The only reason to do a threesome is because you want to.

So work out the rules, find the perfect third person and get your freak on.

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