She thinks she is the boss


March 12, 2018

Dear Pastor,

I am an 18-year-old male who is deeply involved in a relationship with a 21-year-old girl. We really love

and appreciate each other. The problem is, every little misunderstanding is blamed on me.

I am younger, so hence should be less experienced. I can't take it. It gives me headache before I go to sleep and when I'm awake. Sometimes I feel as if she's fooling around with me. She feels as if she can speak to whomever and whenever she pleases, and I can't, but she should realise that it's 50/50 in this thing and

she is not the boss.

Pastor, what should I do? Should I stay and try to work things out or what?

Thanks in advance.


Dear G.H.,

End the relationship with this young woman. You are not ready for such a relationship. Focus on your future by going to school and by working hard. This woman doesn't respect you and if you were to stay with her, you will be destroying your future.


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