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londonlover

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Re: for a successful marriage....
Reply #30 - Nov 3^rd, 2009, 11:35am

Quote from kittara on Nov 3^rd, 2009, 11:11am:

Quote from londonlover on Nov 3^rd, 2009, 5:59am:

Quote from kittara on Nov 2^nd, 2009, 6:13pm:

All this money talk sounds like a business marriage to me....sucessfu marriage requires love ,honesty, respect!...mind blowing sex atleast twice a week, and what squatty sey someone who have ur back no matter what...

yes u need all of what u listed, a combination, but none of that can't pay the bills either and when people bruk, much else will not work, that's why it has to be a combination. I also mention IQ..that's not money.

Find someone with the same IQ, with the same financial stability as urself, who share ur same goals and dreams etc. etc. remedy for a successful marriage.

so matching IQ equals same dreams, goals ?...pure BS

my drive , and motivation matches those with an IQ that i cant even imagine..those on my level wants me to let them be in control all the times, want to call the shots icant see me marrying those kind..but according to what ur saying if i ever choose to get married I should marry them because we have the same IQ...which would lead to a successful marriage

No Kit, I'm saying that it has to be a complete package. People has to have things in common and have same dreams, compatible, JUST TO NAME A FEW AMONG ALL THE OTHER THINGS LISTED ALREADY.

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Re: for a successful marriage....
Reply #31 - Nov 3^rd, 2009, 11:45am

Quote from londonlover on Nov 3^rd, 2009, 11:35am:

Quote from kittara on Nov 3^rd, 2009, 11:11am:

Quote from londonlover on Nov 3^rd, 2009, 5:59am:

Quote from kittara on Nov 2^nd, 2009, 6:13pm:

All this money talk sounds like a business marriage to me....sucessfu marriage requires love ,honesty, respect!...mind blowing sex atleast twice a week, and what squatty sey someone who have ur back no matter what...

yes u need all of what u listed, a combination, but none of that can't pay the bills either and when people bruk, much else will not work, that's why it has to be a combination. I also mention IQ..that's not money.

Find someone with the same IQ, with the same financial stability as urself, who share ur same goals and dreams etc. etc. remedy for a successful marriage.

so matching IQ equals same dreams, goals ?...pure BS

my drive , and motivation matches those with an IQ that i cant even imagine..those on my level wants me to let them be in control all the times, want to call the shots icant see me marrying those kind..but according to what ur saying if i ever choose to get married I should marry them because we have the same IQ...which would lead to a successful marriage

No Kit, I'm saying that it has to be a complete package. People has to have things in common and have same dreams, compatible, JUST TO NAME A FEW AMONG ALL THE OTHER THINGS LISTED ALREADY.

well having things in common doesnt mean matching IQ LL

...opposite atrract rght ? unselfishness leads to a successful marrigae

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londonlover

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Re: for a successful marriage....
Reply #32 - Nov 3^rd, 2009, 11:56am

Quote from kittara on Nov 3^rd, 2009, 11:45am:

Quote from londonlover on Nov 3^rd, 2009, 11:35am:

Quote from kittara on Nov 3^rd, 2009, 11:11am:

Quote from londonlover on Nov 3^rd, 2009, 5:59am:

Quote from kittara on Nov 2^nd, 2009, 6:13pm:

All this money talk sounds like a business marriage to me....sucessfu marriage requires love ,honesty, respect!...mind blowing sex atleast twice a week, and what squatty sey someone who have ur back no matter what...

yes u need all of what u listed, a combination, but none of that can't pay the bills either and when people bruk, much else will not work, that's why it has to be a combination. I also mention IQ..that's not money.

Find someone with the same IQ, with the same financial stability as urself, who share ur same goals and dreams etc. etc. remedy for a successful marriage.

so matching IQ equals same dreams, goals ?...pure BS

my drive , and motivation matches those with an IQ that i cant even imagine..those on my level wants me to let them be in control all the times, want to call the shots icant see me marrying those kind..but according to what ur saying if i ever choose to get married I should marry them because we have the same IQ...which would lead to a successful marriage

No Kit, I'm saying that it has to be a complete package. People has to have things in common and have same dreams, compatible, JUST TO NAME A FEW AMONG ALL THE OTHER THINGS LISTED ALREADY.

well having things in common doesnt mean matching IQ LL

...opposite atrract rght ? unselfishness leads to a successful marrigae

That's not what I'm saying, I'm saying in addition to having things in common would be nice to have someone with an IQ level to match urs which would allow better communication in some relationship. In my relationship anyway.

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Re: for a successful marriage....
Reply #33 - Nov 3^rd, 2009, 9:39pm

Quote from britannia on Oct 26^th, 2009, 11:49am:

marry a younger smarter women.... so i heard............

thoughts?

For a successful marriage? MALVO - DI BEST THING SINCE SLICE BREAD...

1. Compatability
2. Work-Life-Ballance
3. Stimulating home environment
4. A woman wid good culinary skills - bully beef and rice nuh mek it
5. Yearly vacation - over seas trips
6. Entertaining outdoor activities - sex, plays, etc...
7. Don't limit the communication
8. DON'T BRING YOUR WORK HOME
9. SPICE-UP THE SEX LIFE
10. LOOK SEXY WHEN GOING TO BED - DI HOCKEY HELMET OR RAG WEAH TIE DUNG DI WEAVE NUH MEK IT.
11. Maintain a journal together
12. Write letters
13. Call mi

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londonlover

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Re: for a successful marriage....
Reply #34 - Nov 4^th, 2009, 7:04am

Quote from Malvo on Nov 3^rd, 2009, 9:39pm:

Quote from britannia on Oct 26^th, 2009, 11:49am:

marry a younger smarter women.... so i heard............

thoughts?

For a successful marriage? MALVO - DI BEST THING SINCE SLICE BREAD...

1. Compatability
2. Work-Life-Ballance
3. Stimulating home environment
4. A woman wid good culinary skills - bully beef and rice nuh mek it
5. Yearly vacation - over seas trips
6. Entertaining outdoor activities - sex, plays, etc...
7. Don't limit the communication
8. DON'T BRING YOUR WORK HOME
9. SPICE-UP THE SEX LIFE
10. LOOK SEXY WHEN GOING TO BED - DI HOCKEY HELMET OR RAG WEAH TIE DUNG DI WEAVE NUH MEK IT.
11. Maintain a journal together
12. Write letters
13. Call mi

Malvo love, call me--516-LOVE.

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britannia God Member Posts: 43224	Re: for a successful marriage.... Reply #35 - Nov 4^th, 2009, 8:51am
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Biscuit_Head God Member Oh My !!!! Posts: 1428 Gender:	Re: for a successful marriage.... Reply #36 - Nov 4^th, 2009, 9:09am Maintain a journal?? Fada u have way too much free-time iya.
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britannia

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Re: for a successful marriage....
Reply #37 - Nov 4^th, 2009, 9:30am

Quote from Biscuit_Head on Nov 4^th, 2009, 9:09am:

Maintain a journal?? Fada u have way too much free-time iya.

a picture album, .. just knick knacks.... i did something similar in my previous relationship.... even theatre tickets was in there.. or a travel itenary of a trip we took .. that kind of thing...... .. its not meticulously done... just random keepsakes

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Biscuit_Head God Member Oh My !!!! Posts: 1428 Gender:	Re: for a successful marriage.... Reply #38 - Nov 4^th, 2009, 10:03am Ok....Now you talking bout my free "get outta doghouse" stash. When mi get inna hot water and she start gimme attitude bout "you don't love me", mi just back out di shoes box from unda mi bed and tek out di movie ticket stubs from our first date and show har....shiiiiiit!! argument done and punash wet-up.
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britannia God Member Posts: 43224	Re: for a successful marriage.... Reply #39 - Nov 4^th, 2009, 10:07am lol....... yeah the shoe box.... imagine what she would be like if you made that all very presentable and pretty..... .......
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Biscuit_Head

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Re: for a successful marriage....
Reply #40 - Nov 4^th, 2009, 10:13am

Quote from britannia on Nov 4^th, 2009, 10:07am:

lol....... yeah the shoe box.... imagine what she would be like if you made that all very presentable and pretty..... .......

Naa...dis works better....when it's all presentable, she may see you as a likkle fruity and maybe deduct some man points.

When it look like u trying, it waaaay cuter....ole ruffneck thug hanging on to memories in his own way....das dat big ole teddybear effect. S'all about di psychology baby.

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Malvo

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Re: for a successful marriage....
Reply #41 - Nov 4^th, 2009, 12:51pm

Quote from Biscuit_Head on Nov 4^th, 2009, 9:09am:

Maintain a journal?? Fada u have way too much free-time iya.

This is a evidence based practice, similar to your shoe box approach. But you can read together and reflect on the strugles and success stories; hence, a deeper understaning of the collective relationship.

You si thrue my thing set up different, mi use this approach fi incriminate, as well. For instance, if mi pay fi di last two outing and then shi start argue seah a she pay fi dem, mi just draw fi di journal and look fi di receipt dem weah staple to di page wid date, where, and time. Sometimes mi even draw fi debit card statement.

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Biscuit_Head God Member Oh My !!!! Posts: 1428 Gender:	Re: for a successful marriage.... Reply #42 - Nov 4^th, 2009, 12:55pm Man a gyadda evidence like di DEA
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Malvo God Member Posts: 6636 Gender:	Re: for a successful marriage.... Reply #43 - Nov 4^th, 2009, 1:04pm Quote from Biscuit_Head on Nov 4^th, 2009, 12:55pm: Man a gyadda evidence like di DEA A who yell yuh
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Malvo

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Re: for a successful marriage....
Reply #44 - Nov 4^th, 2009, 6:19pm

Quote from londonlover on Nov 4^th, 2009, 7:04am:

Quote from Malvo on Nov 3^rd, 2009, 9:39pm:

Quote from britannia on Oct 26^th, 2009, 11:49am:

marry a younger smarter women.... so i heard............

thoughts?

For a successful marriage? MALVO - DI BEST THING SINCE SLICE BREAD...

1. Compatability
2. Work-Life-Ballance
3. Stimulating home environment
4. A woman wid good culinary skills - bully beef and rice nuh mek it
5. Yearly vacation - over seas trips
6. Entertaining outdoor activities - sex, plays, etc...
7. Don't limit the communication
8. DON'T BRING YOUR WORK HOME
9. SPICE-UP THE SEX LIFE
10. LOOK SEXY WHEN GOING TO BED - DI HOCKEY HELMET OR RAG WEAH TIE DUNG DI WEAVE NUH MEK IT.
11. Maintain a journal together
12. Write letters
13. Call mi

Malvo love, call me--516-LOVE.

I called and some dude picked-up yuh phone, is that yuh grandfather?

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