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Re: Mate debate: Is monogamy realistic?
Reply #45 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 3:50pm

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Quote from squattaz on Nov 6^th, 2009, 3:18pm:

Quote from Faraway on Nov 6^th, 2009, 3:08pm:

Belief of the promise is another thing altogether, from the fact that a promise is being made
Lol
So that means you have never had 'that conversation' squattaz? And you are how old?

u dont get it... no way u can compare that scenario to a vow, unless someone specifically asks u to vow or take and oath and i have never heard of such a thing... thats crazy.

A promise is a vow....I don't put any more credence on it because it was said in front of a judge or wearing a tux.....
Yeah, maybe I was overly idealistic , but the conversation definitely occurred....

a vow is a SOLEMN promise... there is a difference

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squattaz God Member Posts: 26769 Gender:	Re: Mate debate: Is monogamy realistic? Reply #46 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 3:51pm so for the vowing monogamists lol... at what point u make this 'vow'... before or after the first sex occasion....?
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Re: Mate debate: Is monogamy realistic?
Reply #47 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 3:57pm

Quote from squattaz on Nov 6^th, 2009, 3:50pm:

Quote from Faraway on Nov 6^th, 2009, 3:35pm:

Quote from squattaz on Nov 6^th, 2009, 3:18pm:

Quote from Faraway on Nov 6^th, 2009, 3:08pm:

Belief of the promise is another thing altogether, from the fact that a promise is being made
Lol
So that means you have never had 'that conversation' squattaz? And you are how old?

u dont get it... no way u can compare that scenario to a vow, unless someone specifically asks u to vow or take and oath and i have never heard of such a thing... thats crazy.

A promise is a vow....I don't put any more credence on it because it was said in front of a judge or wearing a tux.....
Yeah, maybe I was overly idealistic , but the conversation definitely occurred....

a vow is a SOLEMN promise... there is a difference

mental

Yes, you are mental, but the moon is waning...lol
A promise is a promise...
Of course, a promise is a comfort to a fool

I can't believe I am the only female on this board who's had one of those 'verbal exclusivity agreements' outside of marriage...
I think for some time he actually abided by it....

tho one can never know

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Re: Mate debate: Is monogamy realistic?
Reply #48 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 4:04pm

Quote from Faraway on Nov 6^th, 2009, 3:57pm:

Quote from squattaz on Nov 6^th, 2009, 3:50pm:

Quote from Faraway on Nov 6^th, 2009, 3:35pm:

Quote from squattaz on Nov 6^th, 2009, 3:18pm:

Quote from Faraway on Nov 6^th, 2009, 3:08pm:

Belief of the promise is another thing altogether, from the fact that a promise is being made
Lol
So that means you have never had 'that conversation' squattaz? And you are how old?

u dont get it... no way u can compare that scenario to a vow, unless someone specifically asks u to vow or take and oath and i have never heard of such a thing... thats crazy.

A promise is a vow....I don't put any more credence on it because it was said in front of a judge or wearing a tux.....
Yeah, maybe I was overly idealistic , but the conversation definitely occurred....

a vow is a SOLEMN promise... there is a difference

mental

Yes, you are mental, but the moon is waning...lol
A promise is a promise...
Of course, a promise is a comfort to a fool

I can't believe I am the only female on this board who's had one of those 'verbal exclusivity agreements' outside of marriage...
I think for some time he actually abided by it....

tho one can never know

i am seriously getting tired to debating silly things with u. check ur dictionary for vow.

u didnt answer if u vow before or after sex.

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Faraway God Member seize the day! Posts: 22156	Re: Mate debate: Is monogamy realistic? Reply #49 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 5:03pm You are debating a lot of stuff with a lot of people these days We just see things differently, is all
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Imanton God Member I Love YaBB 2! Posts: 3342	Re: Mate debate: Is monogamy realistic? Reply #50 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 10:43pm Quote from Faraway on Nov 6^th, 2009, 3:08pm: Belief of the promise is another thing altogether, from the fact that a promise is being made Lol So that means you have never had 'that conversation' squattaz? And you are how old? Yu really waah know dat fi chroo?
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Faraway God Member seize the day! Posts: 22156	Re: Mate debate: Is monogamy realistic? Reply #51 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 11:01pm no answer will be forthcoming....
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Imanton God Member I Love YaBB 2! Posts: 3342	Re: Mate debate: Is monogamy realistic? Reply #52 - Nov 7^th, 2009, 10:42am Quote from Faraway on Nov 6^th, 2009, 11:01pm: no answer will be forthcoming.... I thought it was only politions who avioded answering questions?
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Faraway God Member seize the day! Posts: 22156	Re: Mate debate: Is monogamy realistic? Reply #53 - Nov 7^th, 2009, 2:22pm Quote from Imanton on Nov 7^th, 2009, 10:42am: Quote from Faraway on Nov 6^th, 2009, 11:01pm: no answer will be forthcoming.... I thought it was only politions who avioded answering questions? no you didn't!
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<@> <@> God Member Posts: 2384	Re: Mate debate: Is monogamy realistic? Reply #54 - Nov 7^th, 2009, 7:35pm Monogamy certainly places limitations on LOVE ... in the broadest of terms.
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Imanton God Member I Love YaBB 2! Posts: 3342	Re: Mate debate: Is monogamy realistic? Reply #55 - Nov 7^th, 2009, 7:42pm Quote from Faraway on Nov 7^th, 2009, 2:22pm: Quote from Imanton on Nov 7^th, 2009, 10:42am: Quote from Faraway on Nov 6^th, 2009, 11:01pm: no answer will be forthcoming.... I thought it was only politions who avioded answering questions? no you didn't! Ok, parents lie to there kids too?
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Re: Mate debate: Is monogamy realistic?
Reply #56 - Nov 7^th, 2009, 7:43pm

Quote from Imanton on Nov 7^th, 2009, 7:42pm:

Quote from Faraway on Nov 7^th, 2009, 2:22pm:

Quote from Imanton on Nov 7^th, 2009, 10:42am:

Quote from Faraway on Nov 6^th, 2009, 11:01pm:

no answer will be forthcoming....

I thought it was only politions who avioded answering questions?

no you didn't!

Ok, parents lie to there kids too?

and avoid answers...
cheating partners avoid answers...

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Faraway God Member seize the day! Posts: 22156	Re: Mate debate: Is monogamy realistic? Reply #57 - Nov 7^th, 2009, 7:44pm Quote from <@> <@> on Nov 7^th, 2009, 7:35pm: Monogamy certainly places limitations on LOVE ... in the broadest of terms. explain....
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Re: Mate debate: Is monogamy realistic?
Reply #58 - Nov 7^th, 2009, 7:54pm

Quote from Faraway on Nov 7^th, 2009, 7:44pm:

Quote from <@> <@> on Nov 7^th, 2009, 7:35pm:

Monogamy certainly places limitations on LOVE ... in the broadest of terms.

explain....

Though LOVE is certainly multi dimensional and there is a broad base w/ a broad definition...
Monogamy may well limit our ability to LOVE and be LOVED more.

I have always preferred monogamy......yet I can now look at it somewhat differently.

Expressing LOVE via SEX w/ one other person ...is limiting.

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Re: Mate debate: Is monogamy realistic?
Reply #59 - Nov 7^th, 2009, 8:03pm

Quote from <@> <@> on Nov 7^th, 2009, 7:54pm:

Quote from Faraway on Nov 7^th, 2009, 7:44pm:

Quote from <@> <@> on Nov 7^th, 2009, 7:35pm:

Monogamy certainly places limitations on LOVE ... in the broadest of terms.

explain....

Though LOVE is certainly multi dimensional and there is a broad base w/ a broad definition...
Monogamy may well limit our ability to LOVE and be LOVED more.

I have always preferred monogamy......yet I can now look at it somewhat differently.

Expressing LOVE via SEX w/ one other person ...is limiting.
so you put monogamy aside now?

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