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Could your relationship survive this!
Nov 6^th, 2009, 7:40am

I read somewhere that this man unfortunately was diagnosed with penile cancer (cancer of the p.enis). He was offered the treatment of either radiotherapy or a partial penectomy (cut away part of the p.enis).

Obviously he opted for radiotherapy, but this didn't work so he ended up having the op, two-thirds of his p.enis was removed, but further scans revealed the cancer had spread so they had no other option but to cut it all off. Needless to say he sank into deep depression, because to make matters worse after the op he was left with a little opening so he could pee through meaning he had to sit down to pee.

His wife has stood by him saying "his life is more important to me than his p.enis"

Could your relationship survive this?

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britannia God Member Posts: 43224	Re: Could your relationship survive this! Reply #1 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 7:53am sex is a major part of the relationship.. yeah.. but not what its based on.... so unless he did really stupid things to push me away.... im not going anywhere.......
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londonlover God Member I Love YaBB 2! Posts: 1426	Re: Could your relationship survive this! Reply #2 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 7:57am yes we could survive it if we had that history of good relationship, then we would survive for better or worst. Now if he was a dog and dogged me for years cheating and all kind of other shyt, then I would disappear before he could blink an eye.
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Reply #3 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 10:00am

Quote from shandie on Nov 6^th, 2009, 7:40am:

I read somewhere that this man unfortunately was diagnosed with penile cancer (cancer of the p.enis). He was offered the treatment of either radiotherapy or a partial penectomy (cut away part of the p.enis).

Obviously he opted for radiotherapy, but this didn't work so he ended up having the op, two-thirds of his p.enis was removed, but further scans revealed the cancer had spread so they had no other option but to cut it all off. Needless to say he sank into deep depression, because to make matters worse after the op he was left with a little opening so he could pee through meaning he had to sit down to pee.

His wife has stood by him saying "his life is more important to me than his p.enis"

Could your relationship survive this?

FORGET ABOUT A RELATIONSHIP......I WOULD RATHER LIVE WITHOUT MY RASS HEAD IF IT IS AT ALL POSSIBLE.....THAN TO STICK A PIN IN MY D!CK TO SAVE MY LIFE.........WHEN MY D!CK DIE? I DIE...... AND WHERE IT GOES I WILL FOLLOW.......SO I DONT NEED A RELATIONSHIP TO KNOW THAT I AM NO GOOD WITHOUT MY D!CK.

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Reply #4 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 12:50pm

Quote from DAN1 on Nov 6^th, 2009, 10:00am:

Quote from shandie on Nov 6^th, 2009, 7:40am:

I read somewhere that this man unfortunately was diagnosed with penile cancer (cancer of the p.enis). He was offered the treatment of either radiotherapy or a partial penectomy (cut away part of the p.enis).

Obviously he opted for radiotherapy, but this didn't work so he ended up having the op, two-thirds of his p.enis was removed, but further scans revealed the cancer had spread so they had no other option but to cut it all off. Needless to say he sank into deep depression, because to make matters worse after the op he was left with a little opening so he could pee through meaning he had to sit down to pee.

His wife has stood by him saying "his life is more important to me than his p.enis"

Could your relationship survive this?

FORGET ABOUT A RELATIONSHIP......I WOULD RATHER LIVE WITHOUT MY RASS HEAD IF IT IS AT ALL POSSIBLE.....THAN TO STICK A PIN IN MY D!CK TO SAVE MY LIFE.........WHEN MY D!CK DIE? I DIE...... AND WHERE IT GOES I WILL FOLLOW.......SO I DONT NEED A RELATIONSHIP TO KNOW THAT I AM NO GOOD WITHOUT MY D!CK.

Euthanize you, you say?

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Faraway God Member seize the day! Posts: 22158	Re: Could your relationship survive this! Reply #5 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 12:58pm If I'm just dating him, I may be gone, especially if he is bad company If I am married, and he won't try to take antidepressants and whatnot, I am most likely gone Marriage vows are 'for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health' but don't say 'in crankiness, danger or destructiveness'
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Faraway God Member seize the day! Posts: 22158	Re: Could your relationship survive this! Reply #6 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 1:01pm If I'm just dating him, I may be gone, especially if he is bad company If I am married, and he won't try to take antidepressants and whatnot, I am most likely gone Marriage vows are 'for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health' but don't say 'in crankiness, danger or destructiveness'
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Faraway God Member seize the day! Posts: 22158	Re: Could your relationship survive this! Reply #7 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 1:10pm If I'm just dating him, I may be gone, especially if he is bad company If I am married, and he won't try to take antidepressants and whatnot, I am most likely gone Marriage vows are 'for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health' but don't say 'in crankiness, danger or destructiveness'
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Reply #8 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 1:12pm

Quote from londonlover on Nov 6^th, 2009, 7:57am:

yes we could survive it if we had that history of good relationship, then we would survive for better or worst. Now if he was a dog and dogged me for years cheating and all kind of other shyt, then I would disappear before he could blink an eye.

You would stay through bad treatment if he maintained his thingy?

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Reply #9 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 1:12pm

I wouldnt leave, I sure would miss "it" in more ways than one but if everything else stays the same..he still treats me good bla bla Im not leaving. BUT he would have to learn to live with it too... by this I mean not wallowing in self pity forever, get over it after a while...thats the only other thing i think would push me away but otherwise Im by his side all the way...

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Reply #10 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 1:21pm

Quote from Faraway on Nov 6^th, 2009, 1:12pm:

Quote from londonlover on Nov 6^th, 2009, 7:57am:

yes we could survive it if we had that history of good relationship, then we would survive for better or worst. Now if he was a dog and dogged me for years cheating and all kind of other shyt, then I would disappear before he could blink an eye.

You would stay through bad treatment if he maintained his thingy?

good point, No, but u know how sometimes we forgive them and tolerate bullshyt, it would only add insult to injury if he has no tingy and had treated me bad too.

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shandie

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Reply #11 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 1:21pm

Yes, cos in reading this story he turned to drink and pushed his wife away which I think is understandable for a man. Me personally I would stay even tho he may try his best to push me away I would stick at it, persistance must win out in the end. His pushing you away could be his way of showing or proving if you would stay.

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Reply #12 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 5:49pm

Let’s be realistic unless you are old and have already enjoyed the spoils of your sexuality it will be a serious blow to the relationship.

There are things that can be done that can substitute for having a piece of flesh drilled inside you for gratification but what about his feelings. How in the world would he get to, for lack of a better term, “release”? Remember now arousal does not start in the thingy it only manifest there.

I am telling you if the lack coitus doesn’t kill, the pity for him would.

Walk good!

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Re: Could your relationship survive this!
Reply #14 - Nov 6^th, 2009, 6:01pm

Quote from MrsJosephs on Nov 6^th, 2009, 5:49pm:

Let’s be realistic unless you are old and have already enjoyed the spoils of your sexuality it will be a serious blow to the relationship.

There are things that can be done that can substitute for having a piece of flesh drilled inside you for gratification but what about his feelings. How in the world would he get to, for lack of a better term, “release”? Remember now arousal does not start in the thingy it only manifest there.

I am telling you if the lack coitus doesn’t kill, the pity for him would.

Walk good!

I am almost sure I didnt Write "thingy" I dont use such words. Is thats the editing?

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